Sunday, February 13, 2011

Date/No date

I was suppposed to be on a date tonight. With some guy from Cyprus(I know, I find all kinds in this city). However, this morning he called to let me know that he unexpectedly had to go to another city and would be back pretty late. He still wanted to meet up...but...

10:30...I am comfortable and cosy in my bed, watching one of those British murder thingys...why on earth should I dress up, get into the city, for max, an hour or so before the bar/restaurant closes, get back home, etc etc...gone are those days. When I was younger, I promise you, I would have been there in a jiffy! Before you could blink, I would have done my hair and make up and crawled through the snow...lol...

He is gonna be out of town for the next two days and I am probably not gonna be around for the next three...

I told him we would see next week then. He was a bit surprised. But he said if I wished so...

Yes, I wish so. I wish so.

I can't be bothered (by the way my neighbours upstairs are having sex like rabbits, disgusting! how long do they intend to go on for? Uschhhhhh....)

But yeah, its not like I would not like some nice company, wine, etc etc...but...gone are those days when I inconvenience myself cos of a man.

In one week, we could both meet when we both have time and its not such a drag. And if he is gone by then, well then...ciao. Others will surely come along...

(Just got a text from him saying how much he was looking forward to seeing me...boo hoo hoo. Cry baby!)

P.S: and nobody needs me to remind me of those lonely nights when I listen to music, wishing I just had some company. I know, I know. Its the irony of life.

UPDATE: So he came over to my place, since I said I was not moving an inch. Nice guy. I am not sure what he wants but he thinks I am funny and was laughing quite a lot. He says I am good company, sweet and sexy. Chineke! It was okay. I did not have anything at home and he did not mind. I felt guilty though by my non chalant attitude but he did not seem to care. I said I'll see him next week...maybe...

I am quite busy with my various projects so I am not sure I have time for men.

Some sex would be nice though lol...we'll see...

4 comments:

Fluffycutething said...

That's how men are, they like you when you are non challant......

Sure your mama would like "Cyprusian" grand kids???

Ono Edosio said...

I know Lonely.

Adaeze said...

lol....i love ur humour :-)
And glad to see u have reached so far to not let things phase u. It annoys me too much with girls all crazy to get a guys attention.

The Corner Shop said...

Haha!! Honestly, that's how i feel right now oh! I don't even feel lonely or jealous of those that seem to be finding true love. Whatever. I'm just totally taking it easy here

Adiya