Sunday, September 23, 2007

Serious help needed! what do you do if a lump of your hair turns to "dada"?

I need help. Normally, I just add tons of conditioner and the hair detangles but this time around, it has refused. What should i do? I am desperate, my hair is long and I don't want to cut it. Does anybody have any solutions? I 'll try anything. Pls help!!!!!!!!!!

update: I am going to cut my hair now, I am sad.Yes, self pity. Its not fair, I do everything right, really try hard and every fucking time, some shit like this happens. I hate this shit life and everything in it!

update on the update: I now have short hair. Life sucks and yes, I am still wallowing in self pity!

11 comments:

LittleGirlLost said...

Let the hair dry (wet hair breaks more) then attack it with conditioner one tiny section at a time. This requires patience a lot of patience.
Apart from cutting it tht's all I can think of. All the best!

Omodudu said...

You go bololo

Waffarian said...

@littlegirllost: thanks, i have tried everything, as it is now, I'll have to cut my hair. I am so sad about it all, and its all my fault.

@omodudu: if you know as i don cry tire, you no go even talk that one. I no even fit think about am, till tmrw sha.

Nolé said...

Or see a professional.

Waffarian said...

@nole: yeah, I am off to see what they can do, but the whole hair at the back is as hard as stone, I think the shampoo or conditioner I used fucked it up big time, no idea. I 'll update when I get back.

catwalq said...

eeyah.
what happened to all those industrial bleaches that our "boys" made and termed relaxer? They should be able to level any uprising on your head one time?
Omo, me I am rolling in braids right now. I hate short hair with my round face like football. I always look like an escapee or a candidate for housegirl-ing.

fluffycutething said...

U for just leave am now, after all dreads na the new "in- craze" LOL

Eyah sorry

LondonBuki said...

Ha! What happened to your hair to make it get so tangled?

Ugo Daniels said...

Kai, pele oo but come to think of it. Guys find short haired girls extremely attractive and intelligent. Maybe it'll do the magic ;)

Myne Whitman said...

It seems this was exactly what happened to me. My hair turned into these hard, dry and tangled clumps. I searched online tire, but the simplest solution was to cut like I did, and I see you ended up doing. It will grow back is what I tell myself. BTW, did you keep your hair short, or grow it?

Waffarian said...

@Myne: I grew it back sharp sharp! I had short hair through out most of my life...I only started growing my hair as an adult, so I don't like short hair! My hair grows fast though so I just endured that awkward stage when it is in the middle (not short but not long) even though everybody was on my case cos it looked terrible, wetin concern me, I just left it. My secret was lots of gel to keep it in place until it looked presentable.

By the way, I used lots of hair cream. The best is the one with Indian hemp in it. And don't wash your hair often. Thats about it. Before you know it, it will be long again.